Can you stop being gay

Religious fundamentalists who believe homosexuality is a matter of choice consider it obvious that gay people can reverse their decisions. The opposite camp argues that gays are "born. You don’t need to be certain you are gay before talking to someone or attending an LGBTQ+ meeting. People who are questioning their sexual orientation are also welcome. #MiddleGround #LGBTQ #JubileeCheck out our Team LGBTQ’s recap on the filming of Jubilee’s Middle Ground episode “Can You Stop Being Gay ("LGBTQ VS Ex-LGBTQ”).

No one ever who tried conversion therapy or who prayed to God to "stop being gay" ever stopped being gay. The people who claim to have "cured themselves" from being gay usually claim to have stopped with the "gay lifestyle" - guess what, there isn't such a thing. Joseph Nicolosi, a psychologist in Encino, Calif., says he can rid adults, teens, and even children of homosexuality.

For nearly 30 years, he has offered a "psychodynamic" form of reparative therapy for people — mostly men — seeking to change their sexual orientation. Scientific research has shown that sexual orientation is not something that can be changed. Several U. There are many people you can safely talk to about your feelings and questions. People who are questioning their sexual orientation are also welcome. There are some great BC groups where you can meet supportive peers.

There are also Boston area groups if you prefer something off-campus. See BC resources: bit.

Guest post by Diana E. Moga,

Thank you for being so supportive and for sharing your story honestly. BC is lucky you are here. I especially appreciate that you told others they are loved and important- so true! Boston College Libraries. BC Home Mission Feedback. Search the Library Submit Search. How do I stop being gay? It really sucks. Just be strong. I have been out nearly 7 years now age 16, sophomore year of HS.

I internalized everything society told me. There was a point where i was looking at the train tracks on the T ride home waiting for a train to come so I could jump Thankfully I had a change of heart and now i look back at that day.

That week I told my friends and family I was gay. It is hard here. I am not going to lie to you. Just know that you are loved, you are important and it is amazing to be queer, as it is a valid identity and many people are. If people do not accept you for who you are, then it is their loss not yours. Self love is a beautiful process, and it is ongoin. I love you. Previous Post Previous Bookworm today!