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When it comes to fantasizing about someone else when you’re with a partner, there are a couple of key questions you could ask yourself.

First, when you’re fantasizing, are you truly wanting. I’m a lesbian and my girlfriend forbids any friendships or even “hey how’s it going” conversations with straight men, even if they are meaningful yet casual friendships and people I feel comfortable around. So we asked women who identify as straight who are members of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us what their same-sex experiences taught them about their sexuality.

Here's what they shared. Comedian Ali Kolbert sits down with Mal to discuss her pattern of pursuing straight women. The two dive into Ali's high school obsession with her straight best friend and how the dynamics of. Straight Lesbian (or Straightbian) is a term for someone who identifies as both straight and lesbian. This could be for many reasons, but not limited to: Someone who is Genderfluid between male and female and is attracted to women.

I have lost count of the amount of times my straight women friends have bemoaned the bin fire that is their dating pool. They are spammed with haunted-looking dick pics. They are called fat, ugly sluts for not wanting to reciprocate with "titty pics. Usually in that order. Equally as heartrending are the straight women you and I both know who have run the dating gauntlet and are now in the coveted state of being in a relationship.

Unfortunately, a lot of these women are in crap relationships. Statistically speaking, they are likely to do this for men who:I will not go into the grim statistics on bad crimes. This essay is a place for irreverence and levity. It is easy to see why our straight lady friends are exasperated or downright fatalistic about their chances for a happy, or even just sort-of-tolerable, future with men. One of the things I hear a lot from these beleaguered women is a variation on the theme of "things would be so much easier if I was a lesbian.

I have found being in relationships with women is extremely difficult and demanding. Torturous, quite frankly. And let's not forget that women can be toxic to one another, too. Queer TikTok is awash with thirst trap content of every stripe. It is a happy place to while away the hours. You probably won't get unsolicited lady-pie pics, but you will get blocked for being a Taurus or ghosted when she finds out that your birth chart has a rising moon in Scorpio.

Or you will get sent a picture of the house she wants you to buy together after you have been messaging for two days. I also had a nice but very flat first date with a woman who, the next day, just…showed up at my house? It was creepy. You may also spend two agonizing years tip-toeing around the fact that you are madly in love with someone who you are pretty sure is madly in love with you.

But neither of you want to presume since you are both sick of straight men presuming that they can hit on you, and you don't want to be creepy, and you also don't want to die of humiliation for reading the situation wrong.

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So I've heard. People are tricky, and women are people. Being in relationships with women involves an unreal amount of negotiation and exploration of feelings and therapeutic exchange and every flavor of emotional labor you can imagine. Even though this can be extremely rewarding, it is also extremely exhausting. Some years later, I was going out with a woman who, like me, also dated men. We had been dating for a little while, and I introduced her to some of my friends on a chilled night out in a bar, where she proceeded to regale us all with graphic stories of how excellent she is at giving head to men and how much she prefers it.

Straight women of the world: Lesbian relationships are not your panacea. If you are looking for simple, unconditional love, get a dog. Sign up for our newsletter. Magnifying Glass. Showing popular results.